SELF-CONFIDENCE AND SELF-RELIANT : How to be confident ?
How to build confidence?
No person can live in this world without doing work. Everybody in this world has some task to do. Some persons do their work themselves meaning self-help, without depending on any other people. Some persons do not do their work themselves. They want to get their work done by others. Those persons, who do their work by themselves are said to be self-confident and self-reliant as well. Self-reliant is the way of doing anything without asking or taking the help of any others. It increases the self-confidence of any individual.
Self-confidence gives us the courage and strength to deal with problems. It makes us active and diligent as well. We should work hard to achieve success in our life. We should not waste time. We must work harder and harder day by day. We should not give up our efforts even if we failed in the task. We have to try again and again till we achieve success and reach the destination of our life. The habit of self-work gives us strength, motivation, and increases self-confidence day by day. We acquire the power of doing difficult tasks. We are not afraid of failures and difficulties. We learn to persevere and perspire.
Self-confident persons are much bold and strong as compared to others. As you may noticed, those who depend on others are weak and timid. Such persons can not accomplish even small tasks. They always have the same thing in their mind that they don't have the self-confidence to do or perform any task by themselves. They do not have patience or skills for doing self-work. They never effort themselves to do any task. They always look towards other people for help. Others may not work for them or may work half-heartedly. Their work is not done well. They often come to be sad and disappointed.
Those who depend upon others need their work to be done at a nice value. They need to reward people who work for them. They could not get the complete pleasure from their work instead. They need to share the work with others. Such persons cannot accomplish success in their life. Anybody, who wants to be successful in life must learn to do hard-work by themselves. All great persons have been self-reliant. They worked all along the whole day and night, while others sleep for no reason. Self-confident persons acquire the qualities of leadership. They can lead themselves as well as others too.
The story of Hercules and the Carter is an excellent illustration to define the power of self-reliant. A carter had the wheels of his cart stuck in mind. He did not push the cart but prayed to the god Hercules for help. Hercules came there and told him to put his shoulders to the wheel. The carter did so, and the wheels came out off the mud.
We should learn to be self-confident and self-reliant. We should do our work little by little. The habit of self-help must be taught at an early age. Parents and teachers should teach the children more about these lessons. They have their lessons done by others. Such students cannot be as successful as others in their whole life. If they want to get success in their life, then they should stand on their own legs with a hard-working background.
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